Valentine's Day is a time to celebrate our love and affection for our partners. However, it can often come with the pressure to spend a lot of money on grand gestures and expensive gifts (Australians are set to spend a whopping $485 million dollars to celebrate Valentine's Day this year according to Roy Morgan). But there’s no denying that for many of us, our budgets are tighter at the moment than we’d like, which makes the thought of celebrating Valentine’s Day stressful. But, lucky for us, the most meaningful and intimate moments, gifts, and gestures are often the simplest and cheapest.
So without further ado, here are five ways to spoil your partner rotten on Valentine's Day without spending money:
1. Pick Flowers and Decorate the Bedside Table
A simple and sweet gesture is to pick some flowers from your garden or nearby park (as long as they’re fine to pick and haven’t been sprayed) and arrange them in a vase to place on your partner's nightstand. The beauty of this is that you can be as creative as you like, choosing different coloured flowers and arranging them in a unique way to make the moment memorable.
2. Clean the Sheets and Room
Nothing beats slipping into clean sheets in a neat room. One of the easiest yet most thoughtful things you can do for your partner on Valentine's Day is to surprise them with a clean and tidy room. Change the sheets, fluff the pillows, and tidy up the room. The simple act of making their sleeping space comfortable and inviting will show them how much you care. If your sheets are worn out (and if your budget can allow it), a brand new sheet set or a new pillow for your partner to rest their head on can be a perfect practical yet incredibly romantic Valentine’s Day gift.
3. Give Them a Massage
Everyone loves a good massage, and it's a great way to spend time together on Valentine's Day. You don't need any special equipment to give a massage, just your hands and a little bit of oil or lotion. Focus on the areas that your partner finds the tensest, and make sure to keep the atmosphere relaxed and calming. We recommend playing some calming sounds and dimming the lights. Oh and while massages can sometimes lead to other… ahem… activities, it’s important to say that massages should be given without any expectations. Simply lean into giving your partner the restful and de-stressing moment they deserve.
4. Surprise Them with Breakfast in Bed
Start the day off right by bringing your partner breakfast or coffee in bed. Valentine’s Day is on a regular Tuesday this year, so if you don’t have the time for the whole shebang, you don't have to do anything fancy. It’s the thought that counts. Make their breakfast for them and pair it with their favourite tea or a cup of coffee. The idea is to show your partner that you're thinking of them first thing in the morning.
5. Write them a Love Letter
Lastly, a love letter is a timeless way to show your affection. Write down all the things you love about your partner and why you're grateful to have them in your life. It's a simple and inexpensive way to make your partner feel special on Valentine's Day.
Romance Your Partner Every Day
In conclusion, there are many ways to spoil your partner on Valentine's Day without spending a lot of money. From picking flowers and cleaning the sheets to giving a massage and writing a love letter, the thought counts. Remember, the most meaningful moments are often the simplest and cheapest. Also, remember that romance shouldn't be reserved for special occasions - make it a part of your everyday life to truly make your partner feel treasured.
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